MURDER MYSTERY: DR LAURA'S MOTHER LAY DEAD FOR MONTHS IN APARTMENT
http://www.fpp.co.uk/online/02/12/Schlessinger.html
Friday, December 20, 2002
A gruesome scene has unfolded on North Palm Drive in Beverly Hills
where Dr. Laura Schlessinger's mother has been found dead -- with the
body going undiscovered for months!
Yolanda Schlessinger, 77, died all alone in her apartment months ago,
authorities now believe.
Concern was not raised until a neighbor realized Schlessinger's pet
bird was no longer singing!
Police went into the house and found a woman who had been dead "a
substantial amount of time."
Lt. Gary Gilmond of the Beverly Hills Police Department said an
autopsy disclosed the woman was murdered.
Radio sensation Dr. Laura released a statement: "I am horrified by the
tragic circumstances of my mother's death, and so sad to learn that
she died as she chose to live--alone and isolated. My mother shut all
her family out of her life over the years, though we made several
futile attempts to stay connected. May God rest her soul."
She told her radio audience late Friday:
"I am shocked and horrified that she is a victim of a violent crime...
I guess one of the reasons I am committed to sanctity of the family is
because I was not fortunate to grow up in a close knit family
myself... It was her choice to be estranged from her entire family...
I do pray she is at peace... Hold your family very close, very tight
and very dear, and don't sweat the petty stuff..."
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I did some searching and was surprized to find the nude photos are
on-line, and an interesting FAQ and time-line from a newsgroup. She
has
denied Derek has any grandparents, but Lew's father is alive and her
mother was at the time. She has been estranged from her sister since
the
70's. She was estranged from her father but did reconcile with him
before he died of stomach cancer. [1990]
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Where are the nude photo's?
I'm shocked you asked
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Really.......why?? I will admit, I'm shocked at the pictures, thought
they
would be more tame than they were! How the hell did Dr. Laura live
these
down? Will admit, I don't keep up with her, can't stand the woman,
but how
the hell did she live these suckers down and retain her show, miss
goody
two-shoes.
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At first she denied they were her. Then she had them removed and said
some blah, blah thing about youth and mistakes. Guess she should make
that 11 things women do to mess up their lives.
She's a good spin-control persona. Hides the trugh about her life
while
declaring she is her kid's mom, etc. She held down three jobs and a
knitting business when Deryk was
born and continued in those jobs
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Very funny. Comparing Dear Abby or Ann Lander's advice on which way
the
toilet paper roll should go or how much to tip the paper boy or Ms
Manners on wedding protocol is a far cry from *DR*, who is not a Dr of
any sort in psychology or any mental health field, who declares
homosexuals are a *biological error*. I do believe anyone who calls a
talk show for advice on a serious matter are as daft as she who gives
the advice
She earned her doctorate in psysiology, not psychiatry, and therein
lies
a danger to the nutz that call in/ She declares herself the moral
leader, yet her own life is far from *moral*. Her conversion to
Juadism
could be just a fraud, as she is. She shacked up with Bill Ballence
when
she was married to another man, she shacked up with Lew, he left his
wife and three children, she did not adopt, as she encourages other
infertile folks to do; she reversed her tubal and took fertility
drugs,
she worked three jobs
for years after her son was born, and she has never lived in any way,
the morals she tells her callers to.
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Dr Laura does not just give advice, her entire hoopla is around *moral
dilemnas*. I believe she is ill equipped, given her rather loose
backround, to dispense any moral
judgements. She is far from qualified. She has no morals of her own,
given her shacking up history. Ann and Abby were extremely cautious
about their answers and they never said a homosexual was a *biological
error*, in fact
they were rather supportive of gays.
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POST Doctoral is misleading and erroneous. Her doctorate was in
psysiology, her dissertation was in rats
and insulin. Her certification is NOT post-doctorate. It is obtained
at a master's level. It is not associated with her title of Dr nor
related to her doctorate. Certification is just that, nothing to do
with
anything post-doctoral. it is an unwarrented claim
of higher education and authority
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http://groups.google.com/group/alt.true-crime/msg/cb36a556ab3c0ea6She
has no credentials to dispense moral judgements on a radio show.
Radio is pure entertainment, not therapy, not dispensing ultimate
judgements in two minutes.
And her own unmoral life makes it even more unlikely that anyone who
had half a brain would ever take it seriously,
'cept you. Now do go call her.
And I don't see my lunch handed to me by you at all. You are
mis-informed and quite ignorant.
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She's an opportunist. She dispenses what sells. Period. If she hadn't
made it as Miss Righteous, she'd have a call-in show about how to ...
oh, I don't know... market naked pictures or something. It isn't about
morality. It's about celebrity and the bottom line, money.
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You are mis-informed. She is entitled to the title of Dr...
of psysiology. She is just not a Dr of any sort in the mental health
field. Her POST doctural certification is an unwarrented claim of
authority. Her doctorate was in psysiology, her dissertation was on
rats and insulin.
Her CERTIFICATION as a counselor is obtained at a Master's level,
therefor it is misleading to claim it is post doctural certification.
One has nothing to do with the other.
Ann and Abby started out many, many years ago, in a different time and
generation, both learned lots, grew with the times and changed their
opinions. However, it , like Dr Laura, it's entertainment. Do you
really think anyone reads it and says, I must do what Ann and Abby say
and change my life
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*** Under the California Business and Profession Code, an MFCC
(Marriage, Family, and Child Counselor) is defined as a
licensed person who performs services with individuals,
couples, or groups wherein interpersonal relationships
are examined for the purpose of achieving more adequate,
satisfying, and productive marriage and family adjustments.
This practice includes relationship and premarriage counseling.
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http://groups.google.com/group/alt.true-crime/msg/13052148553bb349She
is the older daughter of Monroe Schlessinger, a
Jewish civil engineer, and Yolanda Ceccovini, a young Italian Catholic
woman. They married in Italy in the last days of World War II. Laura
says she lived an unhappy childhood, in Brooklyn until she was 7, and
then when the family moved to Westbury and then Jericho.
Her parents' stormy 30-year marriage ended in divorce.
She has been estranged from her 74-year-old mother for more than 10
years.
Schlessinger won't talk about the breakup now, but she told The
Washington Post
two years ago thather mother was the kind of woman she now criticizes,
for
complaining without bothering to better herself. "She had the brains,
but not the grit, to
tackle something and follow it through," Schlessinger told the Post.
"I'm the total opposite of my mother."
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Dr. Phil is also pretty straight forward with people, but the
difference between him and Dr. Laura is that he's much more diplomatic
when he tells someone how it looks to the outside. Dr. Laura is so
black and white, there is absolutely no room for compassion. Plus she
has lied about her past - the problems getting pregnant, yet her son
was born less than a year after the marriage; financial struggles in
her present marriage, yet her husband doesn't remember a time he was
unemployed, and if he was says it must have been very brief. Dr.
Laura berates callers, yet when she gets bad reviews she goes on the
air complaining about the columnist. I only listen to her when
someone else subjects me to her.
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She had a tubal reversed and it took her several years
(with fertility drugs) to get pregnant at age 38. She was shacking up
with Lew who left his wife and three kids for her. She was unmarried
when she became pregnant and he was of a different religion. All the
things she tells callers not to do, and she also tells callers to
adopt
over fertility tx
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And it wouldn't be our business to criticize her were it not for the
fact that she makes it her business to criticize everyone else.
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http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/lauramom1.html
According to Lt. Gary Gilmond, Beverly Hills cops are investigating
Schlessinger's death as a homicide. On Wednesday, cops spoke with
Laura Schlessinger, but the radio star has not identified her mother's
body, nor does she plan to, said Keven Bellows, a Schlessinger
spokesperson.
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hmmm...murder....estranged family members....one a prominent rich
person
with secrets in her past which she would prefer remain hidden....as
they
could negatively impact her income and status....hmmmm....
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Known as Lundy, the former Yolanda Ceccovini met Monroe Schlessinger,
then a
lieutenant and later an engineer, in her native Italy during World War
II.
They married in 1946 and divorced 31 years later. [So much for the "I
was a
child of divorce" LauraLie.] Life for the couple and their daughters
Laura
and Cindy Harris, now a family therapist, was apparently less than
idyllic.
"I was not fortunate to grow up in a loving, close family," Laura said
after
her mother's death, in one of her few public comments about her
upbringing.
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HEADLINE: DR. LAURA SCHLESSINGER SHOULD PUBLICLY KNOWN ADVICE GIVERS
REVEAL
THEIR OWN PROBLEMS TO THEIR LISTENERS
DIANE SAWYER, ABC NEWS
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You might not call the articles "evil," and I certainly don't, but
Laura
does. Laura tells her listeners that the liberull media purvey
"vicious
personal attacks" on her, like McDonald's peddles "Quarter Pounders."
She
usually does not identify the people who are murdering her reputation,
and she
almost never specifies what the lies are. This is a woman who shares
with her
listeners her darkest suspicions about (for example) just how many
MORE
illegitimate children the Reverend Jesse Jackson might have, but she
whimpers
whenever she reads or hears an unflattering description of her own
activities.
It's all right for Laura to speculate about (for example) the marriage
of Bill
and Hillary Clinton, but no one may be uncharitable in an assessment
of Laura's
relationship with her mother. It's terrible, says Laura, the way
people keep
hitting her back. Of course, Laura makes a good living by being
nasty, but she
should recognize that other people wanna get paid, too.
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You know, if only Laura had acted (and she is an actress, after all)
like a
decent human being -- taken one (1) day off after learning of her
mother's
death, sniffled a bit and/or expressed righteous anger when she
announced her
mother's murder, stopped herself after saying that she regretted her
estrangement from her mother -- she wouldn't have invited the "vicious
personal
attacks." Do you suppose she realized that?
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You do have to wonder. We know *she* has a tin ear, so to speak,
when it
comes to relations with other human beings. Like other sociopaths,
she
often doesn't get interactions right - sometimes spectacularly so.
Doesn't
she have a PR firm to handle this stuff? Maybe it's just Keven
Bellows,
which is like asking one person to deal with a wounded rhino.
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From The Timeshttp://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/article702249.ece
April 6, 2006
Just ditch those difficult parents
Times2 meets 'Dr Laura', an anti-feminist, right-wing agony aunt who
recommends severing ties with relations you don't get on with
Chris Ayres
The headline in the Los Angeles Times read “Mother of ‘Dr Laura’ Found
Dead”. It was the week before Christmas in 2002. At first glance the
story seemed unremarkable: a personal tragedy for the blonde,
conservative radio host but not much else.
But the facts of the case got stranger as you read on. Yolanda
Schlessinger, a 77-year-old Italian Catholic, had died in her
apartment, where her body had remained undiscovered for about four
months. No one had complained of an odour. Building managers had
called the Beverly Hills police department only after noticing her
uncollected mail and her unpaid maintenance fees. Detectives
immediately treated the case as homicide.
More curious still were the details that emerged of the 20-year
silence between the dead woman and her daughter, “Dr Laura”, a
converted Orthodox Jewish agony aunt who, at the time, had the second
most popular radio show in America, after Rush Limbaugh.
Although Dr Laura had previously talked about her estranged mother on
air, the news came as a shock. A few asked the question on everyone’s
mind: how could Dr Laura possibly be qualified to offer advice on
motherhood to 12 million listeners?
Today, four years after Yolanda Schlessinger’s body was discovered, Dr
Laura wants to answer that question with a self-help book: Bad
Childhood, Good Life. A more appropriate title might have been They
F**k You Up, Your Mum and Dad, in homage to Philip Larkin’s This be
the Verse, although Dr Laura would probably not condone such language.
Neither would she agree with Larkin’s misanthropic conclusion: that
parents pass down their problems to their children, so “Get out as
early as you can/ And don’t have any kids yourself.”
Dr Laura, 59, is famous for introducing herself as “my kid’s mom”. Her
only child, Deryk, serves in the armed forces. Dr Laura boasts that
her brand of 1950s-era moral philosophy — mothers should stay at home;
those who hire nannies or use day-care serv- ices are harming their
children — has produced the ideal result. “I have a 20-year-old son
who, when he’ s not training for ten days in the wild without water,
calls me every day,” she likes to say.
In case you get the wrong impression, Bad Childhood is not a feel-good
book. Parts of it are so chilly that you can feel your heart shiver.
Its tone is perhaps best sampled in the postscript, where Dr Laura
complains: “I always took (my late mother) on my vacations and bought
her lovely gifts even when I had a modest income. She was never
grateful and would always find something to criticise.”
Dr Laura goes on to blame her mother for causing their estrangement —
saying that she walked out of a receptionist’s job at her counselling
clinic after refusing to take a typing class. And when Dr Laura
describes the day that she heard about her mother’s Scrooge-like
death, she informs the reader: “Apparently she had no friends and none
of her neighbours were close, so nobody even noticed! How sad.”
This flippancy soon morphs into full-blown celebrity narcissism. “The
horrendous part of all this is how the media, because I am a
‘celebrity’, handled this event,” Dr Laura concludes. “My mother
(caused me) pain even after death!” (Detectives eventually found the
cause of Yolanda Schlessinger’s death to be natural).
I drove to meet Dr Laura at her home on the clifftops of Santa
Barbara, a seaside town a couple of hours north of Los Angeles. She
shares the place with her second husband, Lewis Bishop, who was
previously married with dependent children — one of the many moral U-
turns in Dr Laura’s life that attracts claims of hypocrisy (others
include her conversion to Orthodox Judaism, which she later gave up,
and naked pictures of her that appeared online).
“Do what I say, not what I did.”
I thought I knew what to expect of Dr Laura: I had met her once before
at a couples’ therapy session in Laguna Beach, California (I stood at
the back of the room, taking notes for another times2 article). I
found her witty and surprisingly charming — for a man, her anti-
feminism was dangerously fascinating — although I thought some of her
arguments were insulting to both sexes.
As I pulled into her long, narrow driveway, next to her fleet of
sports cars, I was expecting the same cheeky, dazzling personality I
had seen that night in Laguna Beach. I was wrong. From the moment Dr
Laura padded into the reception room barefoot, dressed in a baby-pink
tracksuit, there was something wrong: she was brittle, defensive. We
drank coffee from cups with coasters and admired the ocean-front view.
Within a few minutes she had offered more criticism of her late
mother, accusing her of lacking discipline. So I asked for the real
reason why they fell out.
“I didn’t fall out with my mother,” she replied, with Clintonian
precision. “When it was clear that my career was taking off, I needed
her to learn typing. She said, ‘If I’m going to take any class, it’ll
be ceramics’. I said, ‘Well, you can take that too, but I really need
you to take a typing class’ and she packed her bags and refused to
talk to me ever again, no matter what contact we tried to make. My
mother was like that. Over the years, you journalist types would love
to go after me because it’s a better story to say ‘she abandoned her
mother’.”
Later, Dr Laura explained that her family’s problems went back much
farther than the typing dispute. Her mother, who looked like Sophia
Loren, was a war bride from Italy who married a second lieutenant in
the US Army after the American liberation. After a shotgun wedding in
Italy the couple returned to the US, where Monroe Schlessinger’s
Jewish family began a campaign against the “shiksa” — the non-Jewish
wife. Things were not easy for Dr Laura’s mother, whose older sister
had been killed by the Nazis for joining the Resistance.
Dr Laura says: “My family was not in any way loving: the tension, the
anger, the hostility, the dissension, the lack of love and affection,
all had its impact. Up until the age of 13 I thought my name was
‘stupid’, or ‘lazy’, because that’s what my father told me I was.
Looking back, it amazes me that he could have a kid like me and use
words like that.”
So, how should people handle their bad childhoods?
Dr Laura spits at the pop-psychology notion of closure with the same
long-range ferocity that she spits at feminists and lefties, telling
readers that people who claim to have found it are kidding themselves.
“There is no such thing as history being erased or made entirely
powerless, unless I scoop out significant portions of their cerebral
cortex, or they are stoned or drunk all the time, or they’re in a
coma, or they make such a crazy life that they have no time to
ruminate,” she writes. Instead, she argues for “resilience”: being
willing to identify situations that make you act out your “Bad
Childhood”, change your behaviour and move on.
Unsurprisingly, Dr Laura often promotes excommunication as an
effective way to neutralise a troublesome parent. “The good news I
have for you is that giving up hope is one of the healthiest, most
life-affirming things you could do for yourself!” she writes. “That
is, of course, if you follow my two-step plan: accept, and don’t
pout.”
Things seemed to go well with Dr Laura until she realised that I was
the journalist from Laguna Beach, at which point she almost threw me
out of her home. “So you wrote that snotty thing?” she said. “I
couldn’t understand why you did that! I really helped people.”
By snotty, of course, Dr Laura meant critical. And that’s when I
realise that she hates being criticised in any way, which is one of
the many reasons why she hates the media. I tell her that I was simply
debating the merits of her arguments. “I don’t like to sit and argue,”
she replied. “I’ve heard all points of view. If we argue about
something, I’m simply trying to muscle you into my way of thinking,
and you are muscling me into your way of thinking. I prefer to spend
my time helping people.”
I told Dr Laura that I learnt things by arguing with people. “Well,
you’re a man of few convictions,” she replied. It was time to leave.
On the way out she became friendlier and tried to explain why she was
so defensive. “If you go on the internet and look up Charles Manson
and Hitler, you’ll find fan clubs. You do the same thing for me,
you’ll find several thousand hate groups. And all I’m trying to do is
to get people to do the right thing by their children and to lead
decent lives.”
I dismissed this as another bout of narcissism, but then ran a search
for Dr Laura on Google when I got home and discovered an absurd “Stop
Dr Laura” website and another page full of explicitly pornographic
photographs of her, taken several decades ago. Perhaps she had a
point: a lot of people really hate her.
To me, her moral certainty is infuriating but her willingness to argue
the exact opposite of the politically correct norm is to be admired.
Even to my relatively liberal ears, many of her theories on childcare
are commonsensical.
Now her son has left home and her media empire is declining: her radio
show is carried on about 200 radio stations, compared with 450 at its
peak. As for her television show, it was cancelled after protests by
gay-rights groups, which accused Dr Laura of saying that homosexuals
were a “biological error” and more likely to be paedophiles (she says
that her best friend is gay, but that no one listens).
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